Thursday, October 18, 2012
Attachment
Reactive attachment disorder is almost like brain damage because the concepts were not formed at infancy, or likely birth to three when such immaculate nature transponder between parents and infants.
In relationships, communication, temperature, space, time, and money I can see associations I would contribute to the neglect.
The brain damage piece is there is no way to teach these things either. It just really sucks. But, of course I take joy because I have faith my Lord Jesus has great plans for his people.
Rad can vary, some extreme cases can really inhibits one ability to be independant. And in the meantime runs a little ragged.
Food is the funniest.
"oh shoot, I don't have any frosting! Do you think I could just use ketchup?"
Thoughtful, brief, intended pause, "sure, yeah.". Serious, the concept is not there in how things associate to one another because that cycle, the Lord parallels many eternal scenarios. It's our job to serve him amidst all this jibber jabber. Oh, and I'm talking about dipping grapes into ranch people! My kids are awesome and I am really blessed to be helping them, I know they will be successful in many things they try.
Reactive attachment can be very interesting especially when compared to the needs met and environmental factors makes it even. It is actually an impairment and makes them vulnerable of sorts. Yikes! In it for the long haul, these relationships are blooming and bonding, but getting cheated on that for your child is beyond frustrating.
Again, my Rock is out of this world so I shoot for the stars and keep my head up!
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